On this day...
Monday, May 18, 2009
I am mindful that today could have been the four year anniversary of one really [not] awesome relationship.
Instead, I remind myself of a response from my ex after 15 months into the relationship. At the time, we were maintaining things long distance, and one day, I called to tell him about all the fun and amazing things I wanted to do; goals I wanted to accomplish and dreams I wanted to mold into reality upon moving back to Denver. His response was one of those defining moments that I should have listened to then instead of a year and a half later:
"I thought you were moving here to be with me."
So instead, Happy Singleton Day. Aside from the excrutiating lonely moments at night - I'm staying on track with all the stuff i proclaimed on that phone call and don't have a grumpy kid in the back seat crapping all over my party.
Cheers!